REFLECTION FOR HUSBAND / RENUNGAN BUAT SUAMI

For dearest husband …. 

Is your burden, O servant of Allah, to smile before you go meet your wife when his beloved wife, so that you achieve the reward of Allah !!

Is your burden for a radiant face when you see your wife and children !!

Is bother you, servant of Allah, to embrace your wife, kissed her cheek and kissing when you approached him !!

Is against you to lift a bite of rice and put it in his wife’s mouth, so that you get a reward !!

Does it include hard, if you’re into the house, complete with greetings: “Assalamualaikum Warahmatullah Wabarakatuh” so you reach 30 good !!

What a burden, if you said the string of words that either favored lover, though somewhat forced, and contains a lie that allowed !!

Ask your wife situation when you go home!

Is against you, if you told your wife at the time of entry: “my beloved, since im out of the side, from the morning until now, seemed like a year.”

In fact, if you really expecting reward from Allah even though you weary and tired, you approach and touch his beloved wife, then you get a reward from Allah, as the Prophet said:
“And you were someone semen alms”.

Do exhausting yourself, O servant of Allah, if you prayed and said: God bless amend my wife and me on her.

Speech good is charity.

The face is radiant and beautiful smile in the face of the wife is charity.

Greetings contain some goodness.

Abort handshake sins.

Intercourse get the reward.

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Taken from the book “Fiqh marital promiscuity” by Sheikh Mushtofa Al Adawi.

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RENUNGAN BUAT SUAMI

Wahai sang suami ….

Apakah membebanimu wahai hamba Allah, untuk tersenyum di hadapan istrimu dikala anda masuk ketemu istri tercinta, agar anda meraih pahala dari Allah?!!

Apakah membebanimu untuk berwajah yang berseri-seri tatkala anda melihat anak dan istrimu?!!

Apakah menyulitkanmu wahai hamba Allah, untuk merangkul istrimu, mengecup pipinya serta bercumbu disaat anda menghampiri dirinya?!!

Apakah memberatkanmu untuk mengangkat sesuap nasi dan meletakkannya di mulut sang istri, agar anda mendapat pahala?!!

Apakah termasuk susah, kalau kamu masuk rumah sambil mengucapkan salam dengan lengkap : “Assalamu‘alaikum Warahmatullah Wabarakatuh” agar anda meraih 30 kebaikan?!!

Apa yang membebanimu, jika anda menuturkan untaian kata-kata yang baik yang disenangi kekasihmu, walaupun agak terpaksa, dan mengandung bohong yang dibolehkan?!!

Tanyalah keadaan istrimu di saat anda masuk rumah!!

Apakah memberatkanmu, jika anda menuturkan kepada istrimu di saat masuk rumah : “Duhai kekasihku, semenjak Kanda keluar dari sisimu, dari pagi sampai sekarang, serasa bagaikan setahun”.

Sesungguhnya, jika anda betul-betul mengharapkan pahala dari Allah walau anda letih dan lelah, anda mendekati sang istri tercinta dan menjimaknya, maka anda mendapatkan pahala dari Allah, karena Rasulullah bersabda :

“Dan di air mani seseorang kalian ada sedekah”.

Apakah melelahkanmu wahai hamba Allah, jika anda berdoa dan berkata : Ya. Allah perbaikilah istriku dan berkatilah daku pada dirinya.

Ucapan baik adalah sedekah.

Wajah yang berseri dan senyum yang manis di hadapan istri adalah sedekah.

Mengucapkan salam mengandung beberapa kebaikan.

Berjabat tangan mengugurkan dosa-dosa.

Berhubungan badan mendapatkan pahala.

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Diambil dari kitab “Fiqh pergaulan suami istri” oleh Syeikh Mushtofa Al Adawi.